It's rare for a comedy to strike such a delicate balance between humor and heart, but "My Old Ass" achieves it effortlessly. Directed by Megan Park, this 2024 film is more than just a delightful comedy—it's a warm hug of a movie that will likely become a go-to comfort watch for many. While it doesn’t pack the kind of gut-busting laughs you might expect from its fantastic trailers, it offers something even more valuable: a touching, deeply relatable story about time, love, and self-acceptance that resonates long after the credits roll.
Megan Park's direction here is nothing short of excellent. Every frame is visually stunning, with the kind of cinematography that feels vibrant and alive, making all of the many quiet moments of the film feel like something special. But it’s her writing that truly elevates "My Old Ass" from good to great. This is a coming-of-age story that transcends age, speaking to the fleeting nature of time, the importance of living in the moment, and the need to embrace both the people and opportunities we encounter in life. It’s the kind of film that makes you want to call your best friend and/or your parents, tell them you love them, and remind yourself to live without fear and regret.
On top of that, it’s wonderfully progressive to boot. At its core, this film is about accepting who you are and embracing the people in your life who see you for who you truly are. The queer representation is handled beautifully, woven into the fabric of the story without ever feeling forced. It’s one of those rare films where everyone can find a little piece of themselves in the characters, regardless of where they are in life.
Speaking of characters, Aubrey Plaza, as expected, is fantastic in the role of the adult version of our main character, Elliott. Sexy, sarcastic, and effortlessly funny, she lights up the screen whenever she appears. But here’s the thing—if you’re going into this movie for a heavy dose of Plaza, you might be a little disappointed. Contrary to what the marketing suggests, this is Maisy Stella's movie. As the younger version of Elliott, she absolutely steals the show, delivering a performance that is tender, vulnerable, and full of charm. Her portrayal of a young adult navigating the tricky waters of self-discovery is the emotional core of the film, and she carries it with such grace and authenticity that you can’t help but root for her.
At just ninety minutes, "My Old Ass" flies by. When it ended, I found myself wishing it were just a little longer, if only to spend more time with these wonderfully crafted characters. While I wouldn’t necessarily recommend rushing out to see it in theaters, it’s a must-watch when it becomes available for home viewing. It’s one of those rare films that offers something for everyone—young or old, queer or straight, lost or found. And while there is a bit of nudity and language, even younger viewers could get something valuable from it.
So, should you see "My Old Ass"? Absolutely. Just maybe wait until you can cozy up on the couch with a blanket, some tea, and the time to reflect on how fleeting and precious life really is.