By Anthony Caruso
A Real Pain is a testament to the power of storytelling that seamlessly blends humor, heart, and historical poignancy. Directed by Jesse Eisenberg, who also stars alongside Kieran Culkin, the film is a rich exploration of identity, grief, tradition, and heritage set against the backdrop of Poland—a place steeped in history and resonance for Jewish culture. It’s a striking achievement that manages to be both a personal odyssey and a universal story of connection.
The film follows two cousins - Jesse Eisenberg’s David and Kieran Culkin’s Benji - as they embark on a journey to Poland after a family loss. What begins as a reluctant, quasi-tourist trip soon morphs into a deeper, unexpected confrontation with their own histories, their own personal grief, the lingering echoes of the Holocaust, and how the role the Jewish faith plays in their lives. Eisenberg crafts a screenplay that is both biting and tender, deftly navigating between witty, rapid-fire exchanges and moments of silence that resonate with unspoken pain. It’s this balance between humor and drama that makes A Real Pain truly exceptional. While the humor is sharp and dry, it never feels out of place or disrespectful. Instead, it serves to highlight the contrast between the modern identities of our main characters and the profound legacy of their heritage. The film’s exploration of the Jewish experience—tied to themes of survival, guilt, and resilience—adds layers of meaning that enrich its emotional depth.
The performances in A Real Pain are nothing short of extraordinary. Jesse Eisenberg’s David is a complex figure: intellectual, anxious, and searching for meaning. Eisenberg infuses the character with authenticity and vulnerability, making him relatable yet distinct. Kieran Culkin, on the other hand, shines as Benji, whose more carefree and irreverent personality serves as a counterbalance to Daniel’s introspection. Culkin’s comedic timing is impeccable, but it’s his ability to inject pathos into unexpected moments that cement his performance as one of the film’s standouts. The two of them have incredible chemistry with one another, and it’s easy to believe that the two of them are cousins. The supporting cast, meanwhile, adds further richness to the narrative. Each character contributes to the success of the film and have moments to shine, adding humor, authenticity, and drama to the proceedings.
Visually, the movie is a feast for the eyes. Michał Dymek‘s cinematography showcases Poland in a way that feels both hauntingly beautiful and inviting. Sweeping shots of the country’s cobblestone streets, lush countryside vistas, and somber historical sites juxtapose the film’s lighter moments with its heavier, contemplative ones. This visual storytelling not only enhances the narrative but also adds a layer of richness that invites the viewer to reflect on the passage of time and the permanence of place. The story is also aided by the score, which serves as a subtle yet powerful companion to the story and blends traditional Jewish melodies with modern, emotive compositions. The film’s sound design also plays a crucial role, particularly in scenes set in historical sites, where the ambient noise of footsteps and whispers amplifies the film’s immersive quality.
I could truly go on and on about the themes of identity, loss, and collective memory that the movie delves into. Its examination of the Jewish experience is neither didactic nor overly sentimental, but instead strikes a balance that is both reverent and relatable - even to people, like myself, who are not Jewish. Eisenberg’s direction ensures that these themes are handled with care, using humor to break tension without undermining the film’s more serious moments. It’s the film’s portrayal of grief—not just as an individual burden but as a shared experience that binds people across generations - that is its biggest strength, however; at least as far as I’m concerned. The narrative raises thoughtful questions about what it means to inherit pain and how to honor it without being consumed by it. The result is a film that is deeply personal yet widely resonant, capable of sparking reflection long after the credits roll. It’s truly a triumph on every conceivable level.
In a year full of standout releases, A Real Pain earns its place amongst the best of them. For all of the reasons I laid out above and more, it is sure to be a strong contender during awards season. I highly recommend this film to everyone, and can’t wait to revisit it when it hits streaming.